The Difference Between Being Right and Being Wise
Being right can feel powerful.
It can feel clarifying.
It can feel validating.
It can feel like proof that we
Being Impressive Is Not the Same as Being Wise
Human beings are often drawn to impressive people.
We notice talent.
We notice confidence.
We notice success.
We notice popularity.
Why Intelligence Is Not Enough
Many people assume that intelligence naturally leads to better judgment.
This idea is understandable.
If someone is knowledgeable, analytical, articulate,
Hope Without Illusion
Some people fear that if they face reality honestly, they will lose hope.
That fear is understandable.
Reality can be
Illusion Is Not Always Stupidity
By illusion, I mean a belief, story, assumption, or way of seeing the world that is not well aligned with
Why Comfort Often Defeats Honesty
Most people do not reject honesty because they hate truth.
More often, honesty is rejected because comfort offers something immediate.
Reality Does Not Need Our Permission
There are some truths we do not get to vote on.
We may accept them or deny them. We may
Truth is Not Certainty
Many people hesitate to talk about truth because they confuse truth with certainty.
This is understandable.
Certainty can sound final.
What It Means to Live Reality-Based
Most people do not want to consciously live in illusion.
Most of us want to believe we are honest people.