To Pay Attention
“To pay attention / this is our endless and proper work.” — Mary Oliver
Origin
This line comes from Mary Oliver’s
Illusion Is Not Always Stupidity
By illusion, I mean a belief, story, assumption, or way of seeing the world that is not well aligned with
Be Yourself; Everyone Else Is Already Taken
“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” Often attributed to Oscar Wilde; exact origin uncertain.
Origin
This quote is commonly
Why Comfort Often Defeats Honesty
Most people do not reject honesty because they hate truth.
More often, honesty is rejected because comfort offers something immediate.
Reality Does Not Need Our Permission
There are some truths we do not get to vote on.
We may accept them or deny them. We may
Truth is Not Certainty
Many people hesitate to talk about truth because they confuse truth with certainty.
This is understandable.
Certainty can sound final.
What It Means to Live Reality-Based
Most people do not want to consciously live in illusion.
Most of us want to believe we are honest people.